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Wan Irman

Submitted by: Farah Nadiyah bt Ameer Tajudin

Mummy is writing this in year 2014, Irfan you are 5 and Irman is 3. The both of you are so much in love with me and im your world. Just like any other young boys, you adore your mummy so much and like any other mummy in this world, I could have felt no greater love than knowing that both of you need me as much as I need the both of you.

It strikes me in head on how much I miss you both every time I’m away on a work assignment and I wonder if I am ever doing this parenting thing right. It’s not easy being a single mummy but I’m grateful to Allah for the amazing family support and love we get from Grandma, Grandpa, Uncle Farid and Uncle Imran. I may not be the best Mummy in the world, but I am trying my very best, and you both know it! I would not change anything else in this world and being your Mummy is the best thing in this whole wide world.

Irfan and Irman,

When you read this someday, I want you to remember Allah and realize that he will not fail you, even when the darkness closes in, return to Him and He will guide your path. He has always been with Mummy in all my hard times and showed me the right path. Teach your children to believe as well and always be proud of your faith.

Mummy wants you to treat everyone, especially yourself, with kindness and respect. Treat yourself as the most important person in the world, and treat others as you treat yourself. Do not miss a single chance to tell someone how wonderful they are, how beautiful they are inside and out. Live so that people will enjoy your presence when they’re with you, and appreciate you just as much or even more when they’re apart from you.

Find your PASSION and give 100% – Life is very short. You don’t have much time, so make the most of it by doing what you LOVE and giving your ALL. It’s not easy to find your passion. Maybe the search will be painful and long, but you will find it at some point. And the feeling of satisfaction knowing you have given 100% brings tremendous contentment.
THINK for yourself – To live a fulfilling life, you have to think independently. This is how you can create a world of limitless possibility. Question everything - like you did when you were 3! It’s OK to listen to “conventional wisdom” and advice that people give you, but YOU have to ultimately form your own opinions. This is what the best LEADERS do, whether they are leading a company, a family, or their own lives.
Always maintain your INTEGRITY. In the end your name and reputation live on. By keeping your promises and doing the RIGHT THING, you will sleep soundly at night and have peace of mind.

My darling boys remember every day is a clean slate. Don’t you dare give up on Today because of the way things looked Yesterday. Don’t even think about it. Every day is a new day to try again.

And finally listen to your intuition. When something feels right, that means it is right for you. When something feels wrong, that means it is wrong for you. Pay attention to your authentic feelings, and follow where they lead.
Mummy knows both of you will soon grow up to be big boys and Mummy will still want to hug and kiss the both of you as the both of you will always be my little babies, so embrace me whenever I do so!
Something that both of you may forget that every night as the three of us fall asleep we hold hands and thank Allah for everything he has given us and we sing our song “we are family, Irfan, Irman and Mummy.

Mummy loves the both of you very much, my darling boys Irfan and Irman.

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